Good Stewards

Continuing with the theme of stewardship from yesterday, there is also much in the Bible that teaches us about being good stewards.  Paul wrote to the Corinthians, “Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful” and suggested that the Saints are stewards of the “mysteries of God” (1 Corinthians 4:1-2).  Peter similarly wrote that we should be “good stewards of the manifold grace of God” (1 Peter 4:10).  The Savior talked about stewardship in a different way when said to His apostles, “And this know, that if the goodman of the house had known what hour the thief would come, he would have watched, and not have suffered his house to be broken through.”  He then explained this to Peter saying, “Who then is that faithful and wise steward, whom his lord shall make ruler over his household, to give them their portion of meat in due season?  Blessed is that servant, whom his lord when he cometh shall find so doing” (Luke 12:39, 42-43).  Here the stewardship seems to be simply being prepared for the coming of the Lord—we should always be living in such a way that if we must come before the Savior tomorrow we will be ready.  The parable of the talents is likewise a message about being good stewards.  To those who taken their talents that the Lord gave them and then multiplied them, the Lord responded, “Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord” (Matt. 25:21).  This is of course symbolic of the stewardship we hold over the talents and abilities and possibilities the Lord gives us in life—we are to take those opportunities and use them and do good with them.  In short, we are to be good stewards over our own abilities. 

               In the Old Testament, the story of Eli and his sons seems to me to be one of stewardship.  Eli had responsibility to teach his two children but failed to do so adequately.  The Lord said to him, “Wherefore kick ye at my sacrifice and at mine offering, which I have commanded in my habitation; and honourest thy sons above me?” (1 Samuel 2:29)  The Lord subsequently told Samuel about Eli, “I will judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he knoweth; because his sons made themselves vile, and he restrained them not” (1 Samuel 3:13).  Eli was responsible for the temple where he ministered and for teaching his children.  He couldn’t control his children, but he could cast them out of the temple for their adultery and not let them continue to defile the Lord’s house—he was not the steward that the Lord expected of him and he paid dearly for that.  We likewise have stewardship over our children to teach and train them to the best of our ability, giving them the best chance to live as God would have them live.  And one day like Eli we will have to come before God and give an accounting of that most important stewardship. 
I really like the following description from S. Michael Wilcox of what it could be like on that day when we must give our stewardship report for the way we cared for our own family.  He said this about some images that played out in his mind as he pondered his stewardships:

Into my mind came an image of a waiting room, much like the waiting room in a doctor’s office.  The walls were lined with about twenty chairs, in each of which sat a man waiting to be called through a side door.  To my surprise, when I looked closely at the men in the chairs, each one was me.  There were about twenty Michael Wilcoxes waiting there.
In a short time, the door to an inner room was opened.  I knew the Lord was on the other side and that I was going to enter into his presence for judgment.  An angel came through the door, pointed at the man in the first chair, and said, “Would Michael Wilcox, the husband of Laura Wilcox, please come forward and render and account of his stewardship?”  I watched as the first man rose, followed the angel, and closed the door.  He was in the other room a long time and did not return to the waiting room. 
In time, the door opened again, and the same angelic receptionist entered.  He pointed to the man in the second chair and said, “Would Michael Wilcox, the father of Kirsten Wilcox, please come forward and render an account of his stewardship?”  The man in the second chair rose and entered the judgment room.  He also stayed there a long time and did not return. 
When the door opened for a third time, the invitation to enter was extended to a man in the next chair. “Would Michael Wilcox, the father of Megan Wilcox, please come forward and tender an account of his stewardship?”
The invitations were extended in sequence, relative to each of my children.  As I watched, the father of Benjamin Wilcox, then of Cade Wilcox, and finally of McKay Wilcox entered the judgment room. 
I received the distinct impression in this pondering that if I could answer well for my efforts in those first six chairs and the seventh, which was Michael Wilcox, the son of Norma Wilcox, I could feel confident and calm about appearing before my Father in Heaven some time in the future when the accounting was real (“What the Scriptures Teach Us About Raising a Child”, pg. 41-42). 
    
This highlights the need for us to take great care in each of the individual stewardships the Lord has given us in our families.  President Hinckley taught this about our stewardships with our families, “I am confident that when we stand before the bar of God, there will be little mention of how much wealth we accumulated in life or of any honors which we may have achieved. But there will be searching questions concerning our domestic relations. And I am convinced that only those who have walked through life with love and respect and appreciation for their companions and children will receive from our eternal judge the words, ‘Well done, thou good and faithful servant: … enter thou into the joy of thy lord’” (Matt. 25:21).  As the stresses of life come upon us, we must not lose sight of that day when we will give our stewardship report for how we treated and served and loved and taught our families.  

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